The typical sales headline reads: "How to Date Hot Women!"
They promise to teach you how to score with the woman that turns every head when she walks by. You know the type, she makes the guys drool. These marketing people never mention that the girl-next-door type, chances are would be a much hotter girl for a relationship.
The real question to you is: "Who is that girl you've dreamed of at the moment?"
If this is the super-model type, you can have her. If the average girl, you can have her. It does not matter how she looks to other guys, the only point where she "trips your trigger." The girl who does it for you is that you can have if you go about it using the right techniques.
This also applies to the girl who dumped you for a second, because obviously your technique was not good enough to keep her hooked. With the right technique, will a woman be begging you to come back to her. For her, you will be a new man!
Almost every guy that you know will date a hot girl, but, you know it's true, 99% of them never do. They end up dating someone who will date just about anyone or someone who has a crush on them. Usually that someone not in your dream girl category. Am I right?
Why do you think it's true?
The answer is, pretty girls intimidate most guys. The average guy thinks too little of himself, so he never steps up to the plate. He just sits in the dugout and watches star players do all the scoring with these beauties.
Tell me the truth. When you see a woman like this, you have a fleeting fantasy of what it would be like to be with her, hold her, kiss her, or just to hold hands with her. Your breath shortens a bit and your heart pounds a bit, and it ends there. When it comes time to step up to the plate and swing the bat, you tell yourself you will surely be a loser.
Is it familiar? Sure it is.
Now here is a little secret that will give you an advantage over 99% of other men:
99% of men are like you are at this time. They make excuses for their lack of courage when it comes time to communicate with a very attractive woman. Do you see how this can give you an edge?
Would you like to be among the 1% of men who are not afraid of being rejected and who knows just how to get a date with their dream girl at the moment? These are the guys who know even if they do not score with every dream girl, the odds are still in their favor. They know that if they go to bat enough times, they hit home runs. And they do!
A good seller will not stop until they get the seventh "No" when asked the final question. That's why they are successful.
Get the point?
To get a rich dating life you have to step up to the plate and swing the bat. You have to ask the final question.
Did you know that "Babe" Ruth held the record for strike-outs at the same time as holding the record for most home runs in his career? The "Babe" swung at even the bad seats. He could golf in baseball out of the park!
Here is the # 1 reason why most men do not approach women: It is because of a mental block. You are probably suffering from the same problem if you find yourself paralyzed and unable to approach your dream girl now. Let us solve your problem right now.
The first thing you need to do is learn a new way of thinking about yourself and all women.
This involves convincing yourself that you're really a decent guy, someone, a woman would be lucky to know on an intimate basis. This is an exercise in increasing your self-confidence that I can say is pretty low when it comes to women. Try these self-talk points, or make your own:
• "I can have a relationship with almost every woman I choose"
• "Because a woman is beautiful does not mean I can not have her."
• "I love all women and are attracted to me, too."
• "No woman is too fine for me."
• "Most guys are afraid to try to date beautiful women. I am not afraid."
Says that these talking points to yourself high if possible, many times a day.
Believe it or not, with a positive attitude about yourself and how you see women will make you more attractive and interesting for women. Women read men at an intuitive level, "vibes" if you want, and your high self-esteem will show through without you uttering a word.
You can find this second trick takes some hits and misses practice.
You have to discover that there is a proven way to communicate. The biggest problem you have with approaching attractive women, you simply do not know how to flirt with them in the right ways.
You've seen other guys recruit old lame techniques and get rejected again and again. And to no one of winners of 1% teach you the right way, you will be among the failing 99%.
It is a fact that creating a connection comes down to a very powerful technique: Knowing how to flirt.
Each woman will react to a specific flirting technique. If you know how to flirt with every type of woman you want to reach them at a deep level that most guys can not understand.
You see, 99% of guys fail because they are not focused on the girl and what she needs.
Let's smash some outdated ideas here.
In the first game is flirting never about asking her personal questions. And it is never on the establishment of compatibility. Indeed, only flirting quickly a success by avoiding statements that guys often use to find a common bond.
No, actually, the flirting techniques about creating intimacy. It's that delicate balance between teasing a woman, while her want your attention. And whatever you do, do not compliment her at this point in the game. It is lame and will not work in 99% of cases. She will see right through it, or perhaps low self esteem themselves and simply will not believe you are sincere. You'll be surprised how many really beautiful women have low self-esteem!
Rather than boldly approach her and their methods to create that emotional connection that you need for all successful flirting conversations! You will discover that low-key banter and light conversation are the best ways to attract and date your dream girl now. In other words: Do not be so serious!
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