It is usually what happens. Because I also wanted to win my ex back after she dumped me just 3 days before our wedding. And if you read this so you want to know how to get your ex back in your arms, as yesterday! I totally understand how you feel, because I've been in your shoes. I even begged.
The begging and pleading did not work. But the big news is that I won my ex back. And I know you can also have the same success!
You see, when we decide on something we all have this desire to stay focused on that decision, and always confirm themselves that our decision is correct. We tend to force us to believe that we made the right decision.
This may be the main reason why your ex does not take you back yet.
Over 90% of the people who have lost connection always want to get their ex back. It is a fact. They still love you, but they are just afraid to admit that their decision to dump you is a wrong decision. They just want to be consistent.
Now where are you going to tackle this problem? You can get your ex back in less than a month by taking it slow.
You can say that it is ironic, but read on and you will find out that it will actually work. If you try to hard to get your ex back, more than likely they will convince themselves that they were right in dumping, and you're back where you were in first place with nothing!
So when you require, or plead or beg in front of your ex after the day you break up for her to take you back, that might not work.
What you can do is send her a note with a single flower, and let her know you are thinking of her. That's it. You should not add anything more. It tells her that she is in your thoughts, but you do not want to know details about her life without you.
So, after having been well received, you should start to communicate with her through innocuous e-mails. You can easily see when she is online and you can ask her to join you in a chat room with other people. So, a phone call. Next, you need to drop something off at his place and get you invited for a drink, but not spend too much time. So suggest you to go out for coffee sometime.
By taking these steps, you can let your ex know that you're still thinking of them and that you are still involved, but you give them their space. It serves as a gang buster, because they do not even feel that they are slowly recommitting to you again.
This is not the fastest process in the world, but the results will be fantastic! If you know how to play the game, you will win your ex back in no time!
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