Wednesday, May 5, 2010

The Confident Woman Every Man Wants

Confidence is attractive. I am sure men will agree with me that a confident woman who knows what she wants and what she is about, is irresistible. And one of the factors to be a confident woman is to avoid the usual mistakes women say, makes them look and sound unsure. And if you want to know how to attract a man and catch him with your confidence, take heed of what you say ...

* Stop your 'as' habit. You know this one-"It's like I'm so interested!" This is where you insert the word "like" in each of your sentences.

To say * that "sounds immature. That is between you and meaning of the message you want known. Also, if you want to be a confident woman who does what she says, so break this habit. I myself am guilty of this one, so let's stop all together.

* Too timid to question. This may be what happened in your office or when you and your friends are planning something. You may wish to clarify anything or question anything about your client's proposal or your girlfriend's idea to walk in the woods in winter, but you'd better keep quite and save yourself some "indifferent" discussion or argument.

* You may feel it futile or too tiring to questioning, but remember that a confident woman will always know what she was getting into.

* Never underestimate your ideas. When you have a wonderful idea to share, please do not hesitate to stand up and be heard, especially if you think that your idea may be of benefit to the majority. Men love a woman who has an opinion on her own, a person who can take care of themselves. A man who disagrees with this theory is not much of a man.

* Learn to be comfortable with compliments. Do you find this scenario familiar? Compliment: "I love your shoes, they are beautiful!" Your answer: "What? This old thing? I got them at a discount. They are really uncomfortable, but I guess they are okay." This is a classic female reflex. When someone gives you a compliment, you diffuse it and reply to a contradiction. If you are uncomfortable in accepting flattery, just smile and say thanks. That simple! Entity of the compliment will appreciate you for your recognition and also see you as a person who is comfortable about themselves!

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