If Caregivers Are Not Parents

Sometimes prescribe certain rules are not so difficult, but to do so in accordance with all adults care a child is tough. If your child is taken care of a nanny, grandparents or girl, chances are they will give in to him / her. We have to work extra hard as a discipline when they are under our custody. Not to say that they do not love them, but they usually do not take the "discipline" role, while you're at work.

This leads to children believing that a particular conduct is 'allowed', and therefore he / she can do it anytime or anywhere. Good children get confused about double standards. Naughty children test boundaries.

There can be 101 rules at home to enforce! Sometimes you just wish you could sweep them all under the carpet! But for children's sake, it can not be ignored. Ultimately you should make your child behaves just as well, although they are not with you.

I ever heard my friend who is a child psychologist, and what I really learned was that children's behavior is like clay form in vase. It's really up to you to shape them - fat and short or thin and tall. But caution here it would not take long before they become hardened and the shape you've made is irreversible. This is when they reach the age of 6 Yes, not scare you, but it's the fact. Not to say that you can not change a child's behavior after six years, but it takes double effort! So let us start now, when they are small children ...

Having said that, if your child is cared for by a nanny, grandparents, maid or child care? How does this affect their behavior and upbringing of your child? Yet it is not guaranteed to take care or your child self will lead to better results.

I think we should "Plant seeds, water them and weed out wild grass"