Kiss Your Single Status Goodbye!

Since time immemorial, a single woman has learned to never ever pursue a man. Waiting for a guy to make his move to approach her, asking her out for a dinner, to commit to her, asking her hand in marriage. Being pursued has its perks-the courtship, and flowers, jewelry, the sweet little things, the dates, the sweet talk. Honestly, the pursuing stuff is fun and all, but to interpret his intentions in pursuing the non-player he is serious or is he just playing around? How can a lone woman tells about a man pursuing her to be his life partner, or his bed partner?

No self-respecting, single woman would ever want to be a guy's bed partner "for life.

This is a woman's natural that evolve from single-to girlfriend to fiancée to wife, and then to the mother ... Although it is relatively easy for a single lady to tell her husband that she wishes to move from casual dating to a serious committed relationship, but for a single woman who is in a serious, committed relationship to tell her partner that she wants one between spouses can be quite risky. She can either risk losing years of physical, mental and emotional connection with her guy or be in a limbo and go along until he will have an epiphany and propose to her. But the truth is ... it's NOT the guy who decides whether a woman is a "bed partner" or a life partner-it to us women! When a man approaching us, we are one with total control over the situation.

Every word we say, every move we make, every signal, we show a guy that will help him decide whether he should try to play with us, take us seriously, or to proceed to the next woman. Yes, we have control over our desires.

You are in control to keep your man interested in marriage and family. If you want to be a keeper, and no bed partner, you can take a guy's perspective, a poison type.

• An owner is a single lady who commands respect, while a woman who let a guy get away with disrespecting her is not.

• If you know how to dress sexy without being trashy then you are a keeper.

• If you will not allow a guy you barely know feel your whole body in dance floor or anywhere else, you are a keeper, but if you are a woman who falls lives its hot and make Britney Spears blush with your movements, so you are a perfect bed partner.

• If you accept a man's number, but not give him yours, you're worth keeping, but if you hand out your mobile number, home phone, office number and email address so you're not.

• If you are willing and can do a respectable conversation with a man and his mother, you are worth keeping, but you laugh at the thought of meeting his mother and you're not.

• If you can adapt to any situation thrown at you, then you are worth keeping.

• If you are a single woman who smiles and knows how to take care of themselves, so you're a keeper.

• If you are a single woman who knows how to appreciate a man's effort, you are worth keeping.

• If you are a woman who lives by faith of loyalty, you're every man's dream girl.