Breaking Up with Someone who is Less than Stable

We all make the mistake of getting in over our heads with someone that our friends tell us is clearly "psycho" or not quite right in the head. It may start as a challenge when you are such a person, and you may find them interesting and fascinating, but soon the challenge and the exciting trip to the realization that you need to finish what you started because you do not have patience or understanding to continue dating someone who is not stable.

The first thing you should do is to get your belongings back. If less than stable person, you've decided to break up with have your stuff, it makes sense to get back to all your stuff before the solution, otherwise you can not see them again. A lot of people when they are immersed in a solution that will destroy the belongings of another person, or that they will actually keep the points as a hostage. You can get your stuff back subtly and chances are that they do not even notice.

Next, you want to assemble his or her belongings you have in your home and put them together in a bag or box. When you actually break up with this person you can hand them all their belongings, so you do not have to worry about some tense moments, and you can also make a clean break, because you've given them everything on their backs and took your things in the process.

If you have shared personal information with this person, you must be sure that you change it all. Think of all passwords or profiles, they can have access to, and be sure you change all the logs, or personal information so that they can not access your data and create problems for you.

When you break up, do it in a neutral place. Actually you will find that it is a good idea to break up in a place where a scene is less than likely to be done. Go to a cafe, a park or something of that nature. This will give you toe tell them that you do not want to see them more, and hopefully keep things controlled.

Make sure when you breakup, you keep things as far away as possible. Do not give into the temptation to hug and kiss him or her goodbye, because it would only give the impression that there is something there between you two and can get them to continue to pursue you. Make a clean break, no hugs, no kisses, and definitely not break up sex as just sends the wrong signal.