Whether you are involved in a relationship or a single set of key topics and themes will be discussed before the coupling of the node. You think you know everything there is to know about your loved one, and maybe you really do, but there is no better time to get the details. The idea is to make sure that you both on the same page and moving in the same direction or at least know the direction so you can make informed decisions.
Question # 1: Do you want children? If you do, how much?
It is obviously not the right question for the first date, but that after that date is tied to each question should take place if not to take. If your friend says the opposite of your personal wish is a clear contract breaker. Speaking for the other person what you want and it can only lead to disappointment and anger. At the same time does not match your lifestyle to meet the expectations of others, you do not want to miss! I think it is worth a step further and call the discipline and to discuss how certain situations should be treated. Also keep your ideas to the number of children you wish to discuss. It is not wise to talk to someone or more children from the neighborhood. All this may seem premature, but you'll be happier to get everything on the table.
Question # 2: What do you believe / belief system of values?
This question on the other hand, it is appropriate to ask for a first date. A person's religion affects the entire relationship, both early and in the future. Make sure your ideal match. In opposing beliefs and values is a second contract breaker. It may seem unlikely that an early relative differences can be met in the center, but sanding the daily scheme of things or get a serious test of your relationship, you are divided. Therefore, be open about how the two of you will be involved in the spiritual sense. If you've decided to add children into the relationship between them. A family, united spiritually, can not be shared.
Question # 3: What are your goals in life?
Sometimes this problem can be addressed. Maybe a year or whatever you decide as a couple. I think it is just as important or even more if you get married. If you ask this early, and the second corresponds to something that really does not meet your schedule so you have come to a clear decision point.
Most people are very stubborn and self confident in those areas of life and want or need little or no convincing to do something else. If you find something you're looking for the answer then the chances of a successful relationship high fit. Marriages are tested and tested and they need to survive through times when things do not go as you had planned. People change and your answers to these questions may live. Just be sure the person you want your time will you as you are to them.
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